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Respecting the Beginners on Your Board: A Guide to Surf Etiquette

As a surfer, you've likely encountered situations where beginners are eager to catch their first wave, but may not know how to behave on the water. You're in the water with them, teaching them the basics of surfing, and suddenly they want to take the lead. This can be frustrating for both parties involved. In this post, we'll explore the importance of respecting boundaries and recognizing beginner surfers, as well as provide tips on how to offer guidance in a supportive and respectful manner.

Scenario: You're teaching a beginner surfer how to stand up on their board after wiping out

As you help your friend stand up from the bottom of the wave, they look at you with excitement and ask, "Okay, now I get to do it again!" This is not the time for guidance or instruction. Your role is to teach them the basics of surfing, but it's essential to let them take ownership of their learning process.

Instead of saying, "Now it's your turn," try responding with a statement like, "Great job catching that wave! Now, let me show you how to stand up safely." This acknowledges their accomplishment while transferring responsibility to them. You can then proceed to teach them the proper technique for standing up on the board.

Respecting Boundaries

As surfers, we're all about community and respect. When it comes to beginners, it's essential to respect their boundaries and not interfere with their learning process. Here are a few examples:

• Don't try to correct them: Resist the urge to tell your friend that they're doing it wrong or that their technique is flawed. This can be discouraging and make them feel like you don't trust them to learn.
• Avoid giving unsolicited advice: Unless your friend specifically asks for guidance, refrain from offering advice on how to surf. Instead, focus on teaching them the basics of surfing and letting them ask questions when they're ready.
• Don't push them to surf alone: If your friend is new to surfing, it's not time for them to be surfing solo. Encourage them to ride with an experienced surfer or join a lesson group.

Recognizing Beginner Surfers

As you spend more time on the water, you'll encounter many beginner surfers who are eager to learn but may not know how to behave on the board. Here are some common signs of a beginner surfer:

• They're still getting used to standing up: If your friend is struggling to stand up from the bottom of the wave or seems hesitant to try again, it's likely they need more practice.
• They're not listening to instructions: If your friend is ignoring your advice or instructions on how to surf, it may be a sign that they need guidance and support.
• They're being too aggressive or reckless: If your friend is riding the wave with reckless abandon or ignoring safety guidelines, it's essential to intervene and offer guidance.

Offering Guidance

When you recognize a beginner surfer who needs help or guidance, here are some tips on how to approach them:

• Be patient and supportive: Learning to surf takes time and patience. Be understanding if your friend is struggling or making mistakes.
• Ask questions before intervening: If you're unsure about what to do next or need clarification on an instruction, ask your friend before taking action.
• Offer feedback, not correction: When your friend makes a mistake, offer constructive feedback rather than correcting them directly. This will help them learn from their error and improve their technique.

Conclusion

Respecting boundaries and recognizing beginner surfers are essential components of providing excellent surf etiquette. By teaching others to stand up safely, providing guidance when needed, and offering support and encouragement, you can create a positive and supportive learning environment for all surfer levels. Remember, as a seasoned surfer, your role is not only to teach but also to support and guide others in their surfing journey. Respecting the Beginners on Your Board: A Guide to Surf Etiquette

Scenario	Your Role	Beginner Surfer's Reaction	Corrective Action
Teaching friend how to stand up safely after wiping out	Teach and guide, let them take ownership	"Great job catching that wave! Now, let me show you how to stand up safely."	No correction or interference
Correcting beginner surfer's technique on the board	Refrain from correcting, focus on teaching basics	"Don't try to correct them. This is their learning process."	Focus on teaching basics and letting them ask questions
Interfering with beginner surfer's riding time alone	Encourage them to ride with an experienced surfer or join a lesson group	"Hey, it's not safe for you to surf solo. Let's find a buddy or join a lesson group instead."	Offer guidance on safety guidelines and lesson options

Recognizing Beginner Surfers

Signs of a Beginner Surfer	What to Do
Struggling to stand up from the bottom of a wave	Encourage them to practice, offer feedback and support if needed.
Ignoring instructions or advice on how to surf	Reiterate their responsibility for their own learning process, avoid intervention unless necessary.
Being too aggressive or reckless while surfing	Intervene promptly to ensure safety, offer guidance on safety guidelines and risk management.

Offering Guidance

Tip	Action
Be patient and supportive when teaching others to surf	Offer constructive feedback, ask questions before intervening, and support their learning journey.
Ask for clarification or confirmation before taking action	Ensure you understand the situation and have the necessary information before intervening.
Focus on teaching basics and letting them learn from their mistakes	Prioritize your role as a teacher and guide, not a corrective authority figure.